Does everyone get what they deserve?

Everyone gets what they deserve. I have been thinking about this topic for days and I have started to see its many angles. But I am interested in one of them mainly, is it encoded in our behaviors? Can we attract our fates?

The beginning of this rumination was a story, which was told to me by one of my acquaintances some days ago. He knew a family who lived in a big, modern, and valuable house in a big yard in a big city. Parents had four children, but the couple’s marriage started to be dysfunctional and their relationship became worse and worse.

One day, they woke up in the middle of the night to find that their house was full of smoke and it came from the basement, where their cars were.

Firemen arrived and raked out the fire, but the couple’s house became untenantable. And the mother realized that it was the proper time to separate from her husband. She moved with their children to a flat, and the man moved into a house. He made a decision about handling the problems of the house alone because his wife got out of this situation.

The man began to cope with an insurance company because it did not want to pay as much money as he wanted. And he looked for an entrepreneur who undertook house reconstruction.

One day the weather was bad and the rain was extremely heavy. The burned house was flooded by rainwater and its condition became worse than before. He had to face another problem alone as well.

The last news was that he had bought a new high-tech washing-machine that went wrong a few days after buying.

Someone told me that the house fire was encoded in their relationship, it was the embodiment of their conflict and of their wrong vibration.

Due to the fire,  the woman has become seemingly well-balanced and kept control of her life, but the man has told about his problems only and been full of unspoken anxieties.

So, I have some questions, are these problems attracted by his bad mood? Did he deserve them because his approach was not too positive, so he was getting involved in strange situations? Would this bad cycle have been broken by a positive attitude?

I think our life is a roller coaster, which is full of many ups and downs, and we have to handle these periods as best we can. But, if we manage them with good behavior, we will get over them more easily. And everyone does not always deserve what they get, but we should learn to bear them. But I believe that if we have made an effort to be positive, we will be able to attract good things rather than negative ones. So our life can become easier than before.

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